I just read an article about how to not fall in love with the wrong guy and after reading it I thought a lot about the lessons this man shared, the experiences he had and the things that I've experienced. He talks about love and losing it, gaining it back and finding ourselves in it. Sometimes it's not in our control, it's not our fault if there's no chemistry there. People come into our lives for lessons and reasons unknown to us at the time and that we should still experience them. I loved this article. He's not angry and mad at the world, seeking revenge or justification. He finally realized this is how the process of getting over one person and falling for another one works.
I've spent a lot of time figuring out why I'm so hard on myself and why I haven't dated. I could come up with a plethora of excuses as to the finger to point but really it's just life and the things that are thrown at us. I was just trying to figure a lot out about myself and learning what I wanted out of life and love. I had my friends and family and now I'm in a place that love is welcomed in so many forms. I can't wait to see where things go and where I'm heading in the world. My favorite lesson is that it's out of my control and just needs to happen on its own.
